Courthouse Wedding?

YES! if that it makes your daughter happy to throw flowers in front of you at the courthouse and they allow it, by all means, make it happen. I wish i would have done something smaller like that. while I was extremely please with how my day turned out, i really wish we would have taken that money ad put it towards something else. Truth be told, that day is special because of the union, not because of the other stuff. and when you look really think about it, you spend all of that money on the guest of your wedding, not on you and your groom (pr in your case, family).